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Tune up Tuesday!  It’s the closest thing to free therapy on the radio.  I work in the afternoons as a therapist (at Evolve Therapy in Greenwood, Indiana) and on Tuesday mornings I share little nuggets you might be able to use to “tune up” a relationship.  Today, the importance of casting a vision with your significant other.

When I say vision, I mean get as specific as you’d like.  We’re intimate this many times a week.  We want a date night this often.  This is how discipline our children.  Etc…

When I’m working with a couple, I have them do this exercise where they each write their own relationship vision and then they get together and create one together with items from each other’s lists.  The point is that we all have these sort of unspoken hopes, goals, or visions for our relationship.  This is about deciding collectively what matters to you as a couple and then getting really intentional about achieving and prioritizing it.